March 2006

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Dear Friends,

What are the magic words? I am sure you haven’t forgotten but just in case you have then pay a visit to the reception class at our village school.

Some of you may not know but the leaders of our three local churches once a week take part in the worship at our schools. Of course, we are not necessarily trained teachers therefore our efforts to communicate with 4 -11 year olds can at times be a bit hit and miss.

We can do a great deal of preparation and spend the best part of ten minutes trying to get our message over and make it mean something to the children. However, at the end of the act of worship one of the teachers will often then sum up what we have said and make it relevant to the children in about 10 seconds flat. All I can say is “Thank God for teachers!”

Quite recently Kathryn, our URC minister, led a very good act of worship and the theme was centred around the importance of the two words: “Thank you”. And sure enough the assembly had just finished and Mrs Foy, the reception teacher, summed it all by talking to the infants about the magic words “Thank you”

All sorts of possibilities take place – all kinds of doors open when those words are used. I wonder if we do use them enough. Mrs Foy did say that when she is being served at a shop there are times when she is tempted to say to the shop assistant “Now my dear, what are the magic words?”

It really doesn’t hurt to give a smile and say thank you even when people do things which are expected of them, it must surely brighten up their day and make everything worthwhile. The occasional “thank you” does stop us from taking people for granted (I really must remember that more often when I have just had a good meal). Thank you also gives encouragement. You know, we are all quite good at criticising; in fact some of us have got that down to a fine art but the odd thank you works wonders. They really are magic words.

If they are magic words in our dealings with people then they are fundamental in our relationship with God. If we are honest most of us find prayer quite difficult. When life is in a mess and we really have a need for God then it is somewhat easier to pray - but God is not there just to help us sort out troubles. He also needs to know he is appreciated and so our starting point should always be, “thank you”.

The truth is that our faith in God will amount to nothing unless we have learnt to say thank you. And we can only say thank you when we appreciate what he has done for us. The basis of the Christian faith stands on the fact that God sent his Son Jesus Christ into this world to die for our sins so that we could have a loving relationship with our Creator for this life and into eternity. If that is not grounds for saying thank you then I don’t know what is. Yet the sad truth is that many, many people have not cottoned on to or possibly, it is more accurate to say that, they have never been told that simple basis of Christianity. For them faith has no substance because they cannot say thank you. It is worth reminding ourselves that in more recent years the old familiar name of Holy Communion has been replaced by the word Eucharist. It is exactly the same service but the word Eucharist comes from the Greek “Thanksgiving”. There is no better way of expressing our thanks to God than through the Sacrament, which Christ gave us in order that we should continually remember him and why he came into our world.

May God bless you all and I thank God for you.

Trevor Farmiloe